Anger Management

  • What is Anger Management?

    Anger is a normal human emotion, but when it becomes frequent, intense, or difficult to control, it can harm relationships, health, and overall well-being. Anger management refers to the skills, strategies, and therapies that help individuals recognize triggers, express anger in healthy ways, and prevent harmful outbursts. It’s not about suppressing anger completely—it’s about learning to respond in constructive and balanced ways.

  • Anger Management Challenges & Symptoms

    Unmanaged anger can show up in different ways, including:

    Frequent frustration or irritability

    Verbal or physical outbursts

    Difficulty calming down once angry

    Increased heart rate, muscle tension, or headaches

    Withdrawing or shutting down instead of expressing feelings

    Regret or guilt after angry episodes

    Strained relationships or workplace difficulties

  • How Is Anger Treated/Managed?

    We focus on helping individuals understand and respond to anger in healthier ways, rather than trying to eliminate it. One of the most effective treatments is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), which helps identify the thoughts and triggers that fuel anger, and teaches clients how to challenge unhelpful beliefs and patterns.

    A key part of treatment is learning to “sit with” anger—to feel it without reacting impulsively. We use mindfulness and grounding techniques to help clients tolerate the physical and emotional intensity of anger, creating space for more thoughtful responses.

    Other tools may include emotion regulation skills, communication training, and, when relevant, trauma-informed care. Over time, clients can develop a more balanced relationship with anger—where it becomes a signal to understand, not a force to fear.

  • Helping A Friend Or Loved One

    Supporting someone struggling with anger requires compassion and boundaries. You can help by:

    Encouraging professional support without shaming them

    Modeling calm behavior during conflicts

    Setting clear boundaries about unacceptable behaviors

    Listening when they express frustrations in healthy ways

    Offering support and patience as they practice new coping skills

    Protecting your own safety—step away if the anger becomes threatening

Anger Management FAQ

  • No. Anger can be a healthy emotion that signals boundaries, injustice, or unmet needs. The problem arises when it is expressed in harmful or destructive ways.

  • While some people are naturally more reactive, anger can absolutely be managed with self-awareness, therapy, and learned coping strategies.

  • Yes. Young people can learn healthy emotional regulation skills early, which helps prevent long-term struggles.

  • Progress varies, but many people notice improvements within weeks of practicing new techniques. Long-term success often comes with continued self-reflection and support.

  • Not usually, unless anger is tied to an underlying mental health condition. Therapy and coping strategies are typically the first line of treatment.